Careful listening
Room for the part that doesn’t sound neat or easy to explain. We can explore both what feels promising and what concerns you, without rushing to make the uncertainty disappear.
Meet your coach
Hi, I’m Zakah Glaser.
I’m a Certified Relationship Coach and the founder of Shalom Bayis Agency. My work has always centered on helping women understand what is happening in their relationships and respond with greater clarity, confidence, and connection.
I’ve also navigated shidduchim as a parent. I know how different a decision can feel from the inside than it looks to everyone who loves you from the outside.
WHAT I BRING TO THIS WORK
Relationship expertise with respect for the world you live in.
My coaching draws on practical relationship tools, communication skills, and Torah values. We work with your actual situation, not a formula and not someone else’s picture of what you should want.
For girls: room to think, feel, ask questions, and make your own decision.
For parents: support for staying helpful, connected, and grounded without creating more pressure.
Why this kind of support matters.
Dating can get crowded with voices very quickly - parents, friends, a shadchan, mentors, and the thoughts you keep replaying yourself.
Sometimes what a girl needs most is not another opinion. She needs a calm place to sort out what actually happened on the date, what she is feeling, what concerns deserve attention, and what she still wants to understand.
That is the role I want coaching to play: not deciding for her, but helping her hear herself more clearly and approach important conversations thoughtfully.
You don’t need someone to tell you whom to marry. You need support that helps you understand your own experience clearly enough to make your decision.
What you can expect from our conversations.
Practical support
“What do I say?” “How do I bring this up?” “What do I need to understand before the next date?” We work with specific situations and language that feels natural to you.
Your decision stays yours
I’m not here to push you toward an engagement or persuade you that your concerns don’t matter. My role is to help you think more clearly and choose your own next step.
Support for the girl who is dating - and the parent who cares.
For young women, coaching offers a place to process dates, explore a developing relationship, and think through meaningful decisions.
For parents, it offers support with listening, expressing concerns, and remaining connected without taking over.
Each person’s role and privacy matter, and we agree on those boundaries before coaching begins.
Let’s see whether this feels like the right support for you.
Whether you’re dating or supporting your daughter through shidduchim, we can begin with a free introductory call.